The Stories of Our Founders

Who is Judy

• Early Life and Struggles 
  

My name is Judy, and from a very young age, I always knew I was different. Growing up, I was an extremely introverted child. While other children laughed and played together, I found solace in solitude. I was shy, quiet, and often lost in my own thoughts. The hustle and bustle of social interactions overwhelmed me, and I would retreat into my own world of imagination and creativity.

At school, my introversion made me a target for bullies. I vividly remember my days in kindergarten when I would sit quietly in a corner, playing with my toys, only to have them snatched away by more aggressive children. One incident is particularly etched in my memory: I was building a small castle out of blocks, completely engrossed in my little project. Suddenly, a group of kids came over, knocked it down, and took my blocks away. I felt a deep sense of helplessness and injustice. I wanted to cry, but no words came out. Instead, I just sat there, silent tears streaming down my face, unable to express the turmoil inside.

These early experiences taught me to hide my true self. I began to wear different masks to fit in and avoid conflict. I became a master at reading people's emotions and adjusting my behavior to please them. If someone liked a certain type of music, I would pretend to like it too. If another person had a particular hobby, I would feign interest just to be accepted. I learned how to blend in, but it was always at the cost of suppressing my true feelings and desires.

At home, my family didn't quite understand me either. They saw my quiet nature as a weakness and constantly pushed me to be more outgoing. Family gatherings were particularly challenging. I remember one holiday dinner when I was around ten years old. All my relatives were there, chatting and laughing. I felt completely out of place, like an outsider in my own family. My parents, well-meaning but misguided, encouraged me to "be more like your cousins" who were extroverted and social. Their well-intentioned advice only made me retreat further into my shell.

Throughout my childhood, I felt a constant need to prove myself. I wanted my family and peers to see that I wasn't strange or weird, just different. I threw myself into my studies and various hobbies, hoping that my achievements would earn me the recognition and acceptance I so desperately craved. Yet, no matter how hard I tried, I always felt like I was falling short of their expectations.

My inner world was rich and vibrant, full of dreams and ideas that I kept hidden from everyone. I found solace in books and nature, where I could escape from the pressures of conformity. I often spent hours in the local library, losing myself in stories of far-off places and fantastical adventures. Nature walks became my refuge; the rustling of leaves and the chirping of birds provided a peaceful contrast to the chaos of human interactions.

Despite my efforts to fit in, the internal conflict grew stronger as I entered my teenage years. The more I tried to conform, the more I felt like I was losing myself. It was during this time that I began to question why I should have to change who I was to be accepted. I started to realize that the constant facade I maintained was not sustainable and that true happiness could only come from embracing my authentic self.

• The Turning Point

The transition from school to work marked a significant turning point in my life, igniting a deep internal conflict that I could no longer ignore. During my college years, I suddenly found myself becoming increasingly extroverted. I reached a breaking point where I couldn't bear it anymore – I needed my voice to be heard, my feelings to be seen, and my ideas to be acknowledged. However, the journey from student to professional presented a stark reality: as someone who perceived themselves as different, I felt incompatible with the traditional workplace environment. The constant cacophony of voices in my head reminded me of my discomfort – "I don't like this," "I don't want to sit in an office and listen to their nonsense." If you don't see yourself as different, you might not understand this torment.

But this struggle wasn't unique to me; it's a common experience among many founders. My boss couldn't handle me, yet he wasn't open to hearing my perspective. That's when I made the pivotal decision to start my own business. I wanted to create a world where I could authentically exist, free from the constraints of conformity. I didn't have to worry about which mask to wear each day or whether someone would snatch away my metaphorical toys. As I reflected on my strengths and experiences from college to work, I remembered the people I had comforted and encouraged. I vividly recall seeing gratitude and belief in their tear-filled eyes, their willingness to share their most precious moments with me. That's what I had been searching for all along.

And so, Crystal Citizen was born. It became my redemption, a pathway to discovering my true self and finding my place in the world. I firmly believe that if you contribute something genuine to society, even if only one person recognizes it, that recognition holds more value than the approval of a hundred others.

Who is Dee

Our Mission 

Crystal Citizen is more than just a business; it's a mission to guide others towards discovering their authentic selves. We provide a pathway to self-discovery and inner tranquility. We firmly believe that if even one person on this planet recognizes and appreciates you for who you truly are, it's more valuable than a hundred superficial approvals. Crystal Citizen's mission is to foster genuine connections. We aspire for individuals to create their own worlds, shed their masks, and embrace their true selves. Our products are not just beautiful decorations; they are tools for urban citizens to heal and achieve self-acceptance.

In essence, Crystal Citizen isn't solely about crystals. It's about offering a natural sanctuary where individuals can unearth happiness and love within themselves. We endeavor to cultivate a community where everyone's authentic self is understood and cherished. Through embarking on their crystal healing journey, individuals can embark on a unique path towards inner tranquility and self-embrace. Join us in this endeavor, and together, and let's create a  Utopia where everyone can live authentically and find true happiness.